Some Negotiating Issues
Who should do the negotiating? Would you negotiate the purchase or sale of your own residence? Probably not. Traditionally, buyers and sellers of real estate act through agents, or real estate brokers. Would you negotiate the purchase of a new car? Probably. What is the difference? One difference is the size of the transaction. Another difference is the personal stake in the outcome. If we can't buy the car we want because the seller is obstinate, we'll walk away, not having our ego bruised. But, if we can't get the house we want, our vision of the future and our stature in the community is somehow impacted. To reduce the possibility of this happening, we retain an independent third party to help us. Another difference is that sellers often talk themselves out of a transaction after the deal has been negotiated, but before the papers have been finalized. To reduce the chances of this occurrence, third party experts are engaged.
The nature of the practice of law is very personal. The lawyers must know that their respective "cultures" or approach to the practice are complementary and not too dissimilar. But, until the financial aspects of the transaction are agreed upon, at least in their broad parameters, it is advisable to keep the principals' contact with one another to a minimum. The attorneys will not be practicing together; one will be the buyer and one will be the seller. Therefore, as in the residence example, the less contact between the two, the less the egos of either will become involved.
Conclusion
The practice of law is an honorable profession. The practice of law is also a business. And the efforts and hard work of attorneys over years of toil does have value and can be transferred to the benefit of all concerned.